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following up with c. but how does your mind decide whether that stranger is worth talking to or not? or can you talk to all strangers now? how have you, if you have, overcome this? i ask because im 26 and i cant talk to many women, even fellow uni classmates, at first i thought i was just shy but its actually gotten to the point sometimes where they will talk to me than i get anixety and i actually just say "nope, cant do it." and i walk away.

1. a. do you speak to family? b. do you speak to immediate family that perhaps you havent met before or would you have to meet them to consider that? c. or better yet who exactly do you speak to and in what situation would you speak to them and not speak to them? as in if you went out with your mother(assuming you talk to her) and she met a friend and your mother asked you something, would you respond or not because you dont know the person? or even would you speak to your mother outside of the house with a whole bunch of randoms around or because they are passerbyers would the anxiety not take over?

2. as you mentioned it has affected your social life i am assuming you havent been in a relationship before?

3. whats your favorite band and or classical composer.

4. do you sing at home or in general or would the fact that the voice will project outside of the house, thus the neighbors or even passerbyers would hear you, give you pause due to anxiety?